Finding Balance and Peace

 “Do not be too hard, lest you be broken; do not be too soft, lest you be squeezed.”

~ Ali ibn Abi Talib ~

Finding Balance and Peace 

It can be challenging to find a sense of balance in life. It could even feel almost insurmountable at times. We must remain strong enough to continue moving forward while staying aware of the needs of others around us. If we are too protective of ourselves, we will shut people out, but if we are not careful, our souls and spirits can become drained.

Sometimes, the more compassionate and caring you are, the more people take advantage of you, and you feel more pain. I have yet to figure out how to manage this balancing act. I have been called a highly sensitive person or an Empath, who absorbs energy from my surroundings. Negative or bad energy is like a punch in the gut to me. I can hardly watch or listen to network news without feeling ill.

Some people can be draining to be around; this is why I strive to surround myself with caring people. I feel better afterwards, possibly because their hearts are good. That does not mean that they are perfect; it simply means that they are genuinely good and real people. So, if you are one of those people who brighten up someone’s day, thank you!  If not, try to be. I always liked this quote by Marcus Aurelius, “Waste no more time arguing what a good man should be. Be one.”  Another by St. Teresa of Calcutta. "The world is full of good people. If you cannot find one, be one."  

As always, I thank you for reading this, and I wish you PEACE!


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